bpf, devmap: Add .map_alloc_check

Use the .map_allock_check callback to perform allocation checks before
allocating memory for the devmap.

Signed-off-by: Florian Lehner <dev@der-flo.net>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20240615101158.57889-1-dev@der-flo.net