net: ethtool: record custom RSS contexts in the XArray

Since drivers are still choosing the context IDs, we have to force the
 XArray to use the ID they've chosen rather than picking one ourselves,
 and handle the case where they give us an ID that's already in use.

Signed-off-by: Edward Cree <ecree.xilinx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Przemek Kitszel <przemyslaw.kitszel@intel.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/801f5faa4cec87c65b2c6e27fb220c944bce593a.1719502240.git.ecree.xilinx@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>