io_uring: put link timeout req consistently

Don't put linked timeout req in io_async_find_and_cancel() but do it in
io_link_timeout_fn(), so we have only one point for that and won't have
to do it differently as it's now (put vs put_deferred). Btw, improve a
bit io_async_find_and_cancel()'s locking.

Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/d75b70957f245275ab7cba83e0ac9c1b86aae78a.1617287883.git.asml.silence@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>