net: Optimize xdp_do_flush() with bpf_net_context infos.

Every NIC driver utilizing XDP should invoke xdp_do_flush() after
processing all packages. With the introduction of the bpf_net_context
logic the flush lists (for dev, CPU-map and xsk) are lazy initialized
only if used. However xdp_do_flush() tries to flush all three of them so
all three lists are always initialized and the likely empty lists are
"iterated".
Without the usage of XDP but with CONFIG_DEBUG_NET the lists are also
initialized due to xdp_do_check_flushed().

Jakub suggest to utilize the hints in bpf_net_context and avoid invoking
the flush function. This will also avoiding initializing the lists which
are otherwise unused.

Introduce bpf_net_ctx_get_all_used_flush_lists() to return the
individual list if not-empty. Use the logic in xdp_do_flush() and
xdp_do_check_flushed(). Remove the not needed .*_check_flush().

Suggested-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Sebastian Andrzej Siewior <bigeasy@linutronix.de>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>