bpf: Fix remap of arena.

The bpf arena logic didn't account for mremap operation. Add a refcnt for
multiple mmap events to prevent use-after-free in arena_vm_close.

Fixes: 31746031

 ("bpf: Introduce bpf_arena.")
Reported-by: Pengfei Xu <pengfei.xu@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Reviewed-by: Barret Rhoden <brho@google.com>
Tested-by: Pengfei Xu <pengfei.xu@intel.com>
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/Zmuw29IhgyPNKnIM@xpf.sh.intel.com
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20240617171812.76634-1-alexei.starovoitov@gmail.com