rust: sync: add `Arc::into_unique_or_drop`

Decrement the refcount of an `Arc`, but handle the case where it hits
zero by taking ownership of the now-unique `Arc`, instead of destroying
and deallocating it.

This is a dependency of the linked list that Rust Binder uses. The
linked list uses this method as part of its `ListArc` abstraction [1].

Boqun Feng has authored the examples.

Reviewed-by: Benno Lossin <benno.lossin@proton.me>
Reviewed-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240402-linked-list-v1-1-b1c59ba7ae3b@google.com

 [1]
Co-developed-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Alice Ryhl <aliceryhl@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240402-arc-for-list-v4-2-54db6440a9a9@google.com


[ Replace `try_new` with `new` in example since we now have the new
  allocation APIs. - Miguel ]
Signed-off-by: Miguel Ojeda <ojeda@kernel.org>