net/mlx5e: Implement CT entry update

With support for UDP NEW offload the flow_table may now send updates for
existing flows. Support properly replacing existing entries by updating
flow restore_cookie and replacing the rule with new one with the same match
but new mod_hdr action that sets updated ctinfo.

Signed-off-by: Vlad Buslov <vladbu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Oz Shlomo <ozsh@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Paul Blakey <paulb@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>