aio: use kiocb_{start,end}_write() helpers

Use helpers instead of the open coded dance to silence lockdep warnings.

Suggested-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Message-Id: <20230817141337.1025891-6-amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>