sd: convert to the atomic queue limits API

Assign all queue limits through a local queue_limits variable and
queue_limits_commit_update so that we can't race updating them from
multiple places, and freeze the queue when updating them so that
in-progress I/O submissions don't see half-updated limits.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Damien Le Moal <dlemoal@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: John Garry <john.g.garry@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240531074837.1648501-12-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>