vhost-vdpa: Introduce RESUME backend feature bit

Userspace knows if the device can be resumed or not by checking this
feature bit.

It's only exposed if the vdpa driver backend implements the resume()
operation callback. Userspace trying to negotiate this feature when it
hasn't been exposed will result in an error.

Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Sebastien Boeuf <sebastien.boeuf@intel.com>
Message-Id: <b18db236ba3d990cdb41278eb4703be9201d9514.1672742878.git.sebastien.boeuf@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>