io_uring/io-wq: make io_wq_work flags atomic

The work flags can be set/accessed from different tasks, both the
originator of the request, and the io-wq workers. While modifications
aren't concurrent, it still makes KMSAN unhappy. There's no real
downside to just making the flag reading/manipulation use proper
atomics here.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>